A test of strength & patience: the cycles of managing natural Afro hair

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In wearing your hair natural, you will experience cycles of manageable & why-am-I-putting-myself-through-this! That’s my story at least. It’s been just over 14 months since my last big chop and there have been several moments already where I’ve either mourned my locks or been tempted to chop my baby ‘fro off, all over again. But now, I’m glimpsing some light at the end of the tunnel and patting myself on the back for my resolve.

The big chop – a true taste of freedom
You can actually try this thing they call everyday washing without having to devote an extra half hour to shower time. You can literally wash ‘n go (as opposed to wash, detangle, deep condition, load up with product, style and then go).

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Having your hair so short brings another flavour of liberation: it forces you to be as you are. There is less for you to hide behind – hair can be an amazing crutch. This was one of the reasons behind my last big chop and cutting my locks did actually have the results I desired. I look at pictures of myself 14 months ago and grimace at how big I’d become under that heavy mop of hair. Don’t get me wrong – I loved my locks but, they were giving me an excuse not to take better care of my body.

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